Pause, Breathe, Reset: Mastering Stress Management for a Calmer Life
- Kirstan Shelley
- Aug 11
- 2 min read
Updated: Aug 21
Learn effective techniques to manage stress that can easily be incorporated into your busy lifestyle, helping you remain calm and focused.
Stress. . . Agh!!
We all have it, it is a normal part of life--but unmanaged stress can lead to physical, mental, and emotional strain. Stress management is not about eliminating stress completely, but about building resilience and choosing healthy responses.
So, what is stress? The body's response to perceived challenges or threats. This can come in different types, including acute, chronic, and positive stress (eustress). Think about giving that first speech in front of a group of people. Sweaty palms, butterflies in your stomach, increased heart rate, maybe a little shaky; these are normal responses to an acute stress situation. We get through it and our body normalizes again, and maybe it becomes less scary the next time. It is the chronic stressors that put strain on our body--job, health, finances, family, etc. Our chronic stressors are unalike, but again we all have them.
Stress impacts the body and mind in a multitude of ways--hormonal changes, increased heart rate and blood pressure, muscle tension, anxiety, depression, sleep disturbances, and long-term health effects. This is where the problems lie. Over time chronic stress can create detrimental effects on the mind and body.
Take a deep breath in, tense your shoulders for 3 seconds, release. How does the tension and release feel to you? Being aware of your tension and when you are able to let it go is extremely beneficial. Mindfulness or being fully present and aware of your thoughts, feelings, and sensations is a useful tool for stress management.
Benefits:
Improved focus and clarity
Enhances emotional regulation (reduces anxiety and depression)
Improved sleep quality
Decreased blood pressure
Improve pain management
Try it now: sit comfortably, close eyes or soften gaze. Focus on your breath: Inhale for count of 4, hold for 4, exhale for 6. If your thoughts wander, gently bring the focus back to your breath. Repeat this 3 times.
What did you notice? Do you feel lighter? Did your tension lessen?
"How would my life improve if I had better stress management?"
We all encounter stress, but the key is in how we handle it. Being aware of how chronic stress affects our body is powerful and taking charge of our stress is empowering. Pause, Breath, Reset!
Practical stress management strategies:
Daily mindfulness (2-5 minutes)
Movement (walking, stretching, yoga)
Deep breathing techniques
Journaling
Spending time in nature
Saying "no" to unnecessary commitments


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